So what’s really going on with our young adults these days? Everywhere you look, someone under 35 is burnt out, anxious, and struggling to function. Is it because they’re lazy or weak? Or is this because their bodies and brains are running on fumes? I’ve been here myself and I remember feeling like I was drowning under a weight that no one else saw or understood – the exhaustion, the fog, the frustration of trying to keep going when my body was begging for rest.

This isn’t just a story or a theory, it’s a reality for so many of us. Most people think that feeling overwhelmed is mainly about having too much on your plate with deadlines, expectations, financial stress, social pressure, but that’s only part of the story because we all have that. What many of us are living with is unrelenting, chronic stress that never shuts off, and when the body stays stuck in survival mode for too long, it begins to break down.

Chronic stress doesn’t just mess with your mood, it wreaks havoc on your gut by slowing digestion, lowering stomach acid and digestive enzymes, and it damages the gut lining. Over time, this lining becomes more porous and you end up suffering from “leaky gut,” and yes, it’s very real, you can find plenty of research on this one. When your gut lining breaks down, proteins and bacteria leak into your bloodstream, which triggers inflammation.

Your immune system stays on high alert, your energy crashes, your brain fogs over, and your body can’t absorb nutrients properly. If you’re not absorbing what you eat – no supplement, diet, or therapy is going to work. That’s why so many people keep trying to “fix” their feelings of being overwhelmed with mindset tricks or time management apps, and they just end up feeling worse.

On top of that, add in poor sleep, erratic blood sugar, too much caffeine and a lack of protein and minerals and you’ve got a nervous system that’s constantly glitching. Suddenly, even the smallest of tasks feel like oversized mountains. Appetite disappears or cravings hit hard. You feel irritable, foggy, and heavy. Then comes the emotional weight of feeling like a failure for not being able to “just push through.”  Here’s the thing: 

This isn’t about mindset, it’s biology. You can’t lead a grounded life without a grounded nervous system. Over time, chronic stress rewires your brain where the prefrontal cortex (the part that handles reasoning and self-control) starts shutting down while the amygdala (the brain’s alarm system) takes over. That’s why it’s so hard to think clearly or calm down when we’re overwhelmed. 

Adding more protein stabilizes blood sugar by slowing glucose absorption, which prevents those adrenaline-fueled crashes that spike anxiety and exhaustion. It also provides amino acids essential for neurotransmitter production, the chemicals that balance mood and energy.

Remember, your gut health influences your brain more than you might realize.  Your gut produces most of your serotonin and GABA, the neurochemicals that are essential for emotional balance and mental clarity, so when your gut is compromised, it can’t make these neurotransmitters effectively, which means increased anxiety and brain fog.

Above all, healing takes time, so be kind to yourself while remembering that recovery isn’t a straight line. It’s messy, slow, and it requires patience. Giving yourself grace is a powerful step towards real change. So what can we actually do about it? 

First, start your day with protein. Not toast or oat milk coffee but real, bioavailable protein that your gut can absorb without a fight. Even 15 to 20 grams within the first hour of waking can stabilize blood sugar, calm your nervous system and prevent that late-morning crash so many people write off as being normal.

Second, add magnesium or take more than the label says. Most people are deficient and they don’t even know it. Magnesium glycinate or malate helps calm your nervous system, eases muscle tension, and improves sleep quality without making you feel sleepy or tired the next day. 

Third, focus on your gut health. If you struggle with bloating, irregular bowels, fatigue, or mood issues, your gut microbiome needs support. Probiotics help, but be sure to choose one that guarantees live delivery of beneficial bacteria, with a balanced formula containing multiple strains and spore-based probiotics to support gut balance gently and effectively. These qualities help the probiotics survive stomach acid and reach your intestines alive, giving maximum support for digestion and immune health, without overwhelming sensitive systems.

Fourth, be mindful of the cleaning products you use at home. Harsh household cleaners with strong chemicals and antibacterial agents can disrupt your body’s microbial balance by killing beneficial bacteria on your skin and in your environment. 

Over-sanitizing reduces our exposure to microbes that help train and regulate our immune system, potentially irritating our gut lining and throwing off gut bacteria balance. Combined with chronic stress and poor nutrition, this adds extra strain to an already fragile system. Choose microbiome-friendly cleaning products to support your gut and immune health. 

And finally, cut down on overstimulation. That’s not just screens – it’s noise, multitasking, too much caffeine, drama, and constant background tension. When your nervous system never gets a break, your body treats everything like a threat, making it impossible for the brain to settle down. 

Here’s what I want you to really understand: Overwhelm isn’t just mental, it’s chemical, nutritional, and physiological. You’re running a body that’s trying to survive in conditions it wasn’t designed for, so if you’re blaming yourself for not “having it together”, start here:

👉 Begin your day with protein 

👉 Support your minerals (especially magnesium) 

👉 Repair your gut with live probiotics 

👉 Choose microbiome-friendly cleaning options 

👉 Reduce overstimulation 

These aren’t just trendy hacks of the month, they’re the foundation that can help your body come back online after months or years of chaos. Remember, this isn’t about willpower or motivation, it’s about giving your body the resources it needs to heal, regulate, and finally breathe again.

If this hits home, drop the word STRUGGLING and I’ll send you free access to my Wellness Center that’s packed full of real, practical strategies. 

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